In this video, we undertake a comprehensive ‘soul surgery’ to diagnose your readiness for dating using the seven diagnostic tests the saints used before courtship. We’ll explore three neurological signs indicating trauma bonds to your past, analyze scriptures and clinical studies, and delve into a 10-point dating readiness examination. Topics include codependency, closure from past relationships, non-negotiables, financial stability, handling conflict, and more. Join us as we aim to align your dating approach with God’s standards rather than the world’s, ensuring a healthier and more faithful path to love.
00:00 Introduction: The Brutal Truth About Dating
00:17 Soul Surgery: Diagnosing Your Readiness
00:48 Sign One: Comfortable Being Alone
02:01 Sign Two: Letting Go of Your Ex
03:04 Sign Three: Knowing Your Non-Negotiables
03:50 Sign Four: Financial Readiness
05:33 Sign Five: Family System Work
06:19 Sign Six: Handling Conflict
06:56 Sign Seven: Willingness to Walk Away
07:30 Neurological Signs of Trauma Bonding
12:07 10-Point Dating Readiness Exam
15:34 Conclusion and Prayer
